Words

Lol!!! Well that laugh from the gut was for YoungColouredMale who was quite insightful to my moaning. And yes, I did have to get that one off my chest for the record it was just getting too much for me to keep in and yes, I don’t like moaning but I do have a bad habit of doing some of my own moaning deep on the inside. Sometimes it just surfaces like a cockroach on your popcorn but very seldom.

But the New Year has brought with it promise of less road rage and even less economic stress so it has been good. I have tried to keep to my no smoking promise but you should know that I have failed hopelessly. Honesty breaks no friendship as they say. So here I sit another day and feeling pretty good. If only some of my girls were feeling the same. It is easy to say something to someone without thinking but we never do know just how deeply what we say affects them. Words are a powerful medium and have some serious consequences, stress and worry being one of them. Like Dudette commented on my total loss of control: Your karma is dropping. And yes, that is exactly what it does, drops your karma and drains the soul. I also stand accused of foot in mouth disease and death by slashing ego but I have learnt that a simple I am sorry is a good way of mending broken hearts. Sometimes you say something out of anger and the damage caused is sometimes too deep. So today I don’t have much to say besides, honesty is a good thing but it is not what you say to people but how you say it. Honesty is good and a lot of people really do appreciate that not only in a relationship but also in friendship. So keep up the honesty but remember to watch how you say. For example, I want to know that you are over your ex but do not compare the way you feel about me to the way you feel about. We are different and the love you feel for me should be different.

In closing guys, words can be sharp. They can hurt so badly. So be careful what you say to not only the ones you love because words can not only build but they can destroy as well.