So last week my neice has become yet another statistic. Coloured meddie with 1 and a half kids and divorced!!! WTF! I actually thought it was an ok laaitie but guess what,I was wrong , so wrong. When I first found out I was like neh, not N….., he seemed like such a genuine ou. Then the stories started coming out! The abuse, both physical and emotional. I wanted to mess him up because nobody raises a hand for anybody in MY FAMILY!!! That thought passed when wifey calmed me down.
Now this brings me to my point , when are people gona realise ” Trou is nie perd koop nie” i.e Marriage aint easy! We have too many young people getting married just so that they can get their freedom and don’t take the time to really assess their lives. If your courtship was miserable then chances are your marriage will be much the same.
So I ask, when are we gona stop our young adults making what may be the biggest mistakes of their lives?

